RIP Daddy

Now theres is one aspect of father daughter relationships that I have been saving for the end because it would the hardest one to write for me. That reason is because that is how I live today.

How does someone deal with the lost of their father?  Losing your father is one of the hardest things anyone as to deal with especially if they were a big part of your life, like mine was. The only advice I can give you to anyone dealing with this is take it a day at a time.  It seems like it will never get better and it might not but you have to try. Everything can not go back to what it was but it is possible to make things better.

Everyday I think about my dad and ask myself am I making him proud. That alone makes me never want to give up. He is with me every choice I make and everything I do. I know that even though he is not next to me physically he is watching over me everyday. It is kinda cool to think about because I know he would not want anything bad to happen to me again so I know I am protected from whatever life throws at me. Though I cannot play my dad and I's  little game of saying "guess what?" and answering with "what?" and then ending with "I love you. " I know that he is showing that he loves me everyday!

But this issue of losing your dad is something that I have learned to deal with and if you are struggling with that I am more then happy to listen. I know I like talking through things in my head and having someone to listen helps me. I would love to hear stories about everyones dads! So email me at vfarina@eastern.edu!




On a less serious note if you deal with a loss of anything.. maybe a hobby check out this blog.

I enjoyed my time writing even if no one reads this blog I had a good time typing!

Thanks
Tori